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5 things men want from women in a relationship/marriage

1) Peace

One of the greatest things you can give a man is not your body but peace of mind

An atmosphere in which he will find happiness, a place where he can relax and think plan and reach his goal to conquer his world and achieve his goal in it without pressure, constant disturbance or problems

If you can't give him peace leave him to find someone who can

2) Understanding

He wants you to understand him

To understand his ability (financially for example) and manage with him and not let the demands exceed them

To understand his nature (temperament likes, dislikes) and know how to blend/flow with him peacefully

To understand his calling and know how to support him to achieve it not fight it

An understanding woman captivates the heart and kidneys of her man.

3) Encouragement

He may not say it but he looks to you for encouragement daily

Your words mean a lot to him

"Baby I know you're trying I love you

I see the sacrifice you are making for us and our future thank you

Baby you can do it you can get it done things may not be the way you want them to be right now but I m with you

Men love and cherish a woman who encourages them to succeed

4) Respect

Calm down the first one before you get insulted You yourself don t want respectv so what are we not saying?

No man wants to marry a second mother or an elder sister in a context of authority

Treat him with respect as he treats you

Talk to him respectfully (publicly and privately)

Respect and respect him as you would your pastor

5) Influence and sponsorship

A man wants his wife to be treated like a child but few admit that

Men also want to be spoiled and taken care of

He wants you to take care of him
Men are very weak in this area so most men do not joke with their mothers the first woman to take care of them

Be there for him to make sure he eats, even if you are not the one currently cooking for him still encourage him to eat

Remember: God may give us perfect wisdom to do the right things

How do you touch your woman?

A woman loves to be touched by her man Feelings of love are hidden under her skin waiting for him to wake her up

1. Gently press her palm when she is afraid to comfort her

2. Gently pressing and rubbing her back when you hug her tightly makes her feel secure

3. Grab her a** without apology as this makes her feel wanted and desired by you her man

4. Hold her by the waist when you introduce her to your friends and family This makes her feel safe

5. Gently rubbing her hand when she feels anxious or receives some bad news this shows her that you care

6. Catch her while she is in the kitchen cooking with her hands tied and you telling her how much she means to you will make her effort worth it

7. Place your hand between her breasts or on her breasts while you sleep as this will make her feel comfortable and warm with you

8. Touching her belly when she is pregnant tells her that she is not alone dad is there with her

9. Rubbing her buttocks when she gets dressed or when she is relaxing in bed this makes her feel sexy

10. Hold her hands when you pray as this indicates unity before God

11. Sneak up from behind her and wrap your arms around her It makes her feel special

12. Massage her shoulders when she says she is tired this calms her down

13. Gently stroke her back tracing down her spine sending sweet shivers throughout her body

14. Rubbing her feet when she's had a long day tells her you re serious when you say you'll take care of her

15. Oil her body back elbows knees sometimes. Love a body that you find sexy

16. Hold her face, her neck as you kiss her gently melting and weakening her You like to surrender to your manly love

17. Play with her fingers while you hug and talk letting her know that you are paying attention

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A few times a week, I pass a cemetery that borders a major roadway. It's a huge piece of land, probably 4 acres and appears to be full of flowers on the grave-sites. The cemetery in Miami where my parents are buried doesn't permit artificial flowers and I don't know if this one does but, as they say, people are dying to get inside the place, hopefully those who are remembered will get real flowers and not fakes.

I can see when the ground is prepared for an upcoming burial as they have plywood covering the hole and a blue canopy with wheels set over the plot waiting for the event. Sometimes, there are a few scattered around the cemetery, especially on weekends.

If I pass by in the afternoon, traffic may be backed up at a red light giving more time to look over and see people visiting the graves of loved ones. One day, I saw a man sitting on the ground and appeared to be leaning over a small gravestone. He had a wheelchair that was tipped on it's side and partly folded, also a blanket laid out and what appeared to be a basket. My best guess would be, he brought food and intended to be there for a while.

From the street, you cannot see any roads or walkways, my guess is the passage ways run parallel to the highway and it would be extremely difficult for someone in a wheelchair to maneuver over the lawn to be where he was.

Twenty minutes later, after doing an errand, I passed the cemetery again and the man was still there. It's been a few days now and I keep thinking about it...



I chose the blog category: Family and think the man is still grieving over the loss of a loved one.

I watched some, not all, of a highly emotional video although I REALLY hate videos which try to manipulate my emotions which is why I didn’t watch it all and haven’t linked it.

It was a tale of abortion refused, and the year that followed. Stripped of emotional throbbing-voice content, the facts are pretty simple.

The couple had five children already. They had previous drugs and drink issues. Four – FOUR – of the children had already been taken by the state as they were judged unfit parents. She tried to get number six aborted for a very real health issue but was refused. Strike one.

That health issue - she’d fallen pregnant again when her earlier child was three months old. The embryo was embedded in the C-section scar from her last pregnancy which meant chances of carrying to term were non-existent. Chances of life-threatening complications, extreme. Not good enough reason for an abortion. Strike two.

Complications indeed but both mother and child survived emergency premature birth and the child went straight into an incubator. The closest hospital with suitable facilities was an hour away. Mother America dug deep to pay the mother the life-changing $14 a week paid to mums whose kids are in hospital at a distance, to spend as she wished.

The baby was discharged, still needing a feeding tube and specialized care, and did I mention quite severely retarded? on the first birthday of its older sister, presenting serious care issues. Too young and too disabled to be put into day-care facility, but here’s a little problem, both parents work, neither parent eligible for European-style parental leave or support. In fact, it seems the states refusing abortion ironically offer the least support to mothers of newborns. Some American logic for you. Strike three.

Well, I gave up on the video at that point. Even the American who had posted it didn’t seem to realize how shatteringly badly it reflects on you as a supposedly advanced country, it was posted as a heartwarming tale of courage in the face of adversity, to tug at the heartstrings. Aw.



I drew some conclusions, then deleted them. What's the point. Add your own if you feel a need. I do find that my interest in your Big Issues, now I've seen your ignored ones, is diddly squat.

There’s a blog at the moment mocking the way Europe tries to look after its own and hoping America doesn’t go that way. I deleted my comments on that too.

A big day in Big F.

The general idea O vast herd of publican
Thespians....
Is to Flip the party.
Which we um, LIBERALY Engineer from the
Technical writing of Bob Welch... aka Belmont Bob of JBS. Fame.
Imagine, Lennon said , if everyone went & registered as plan D for don key.
Imagine further, where you do have to become a wee bit of para legal...and actionable... which you better dew soon
Cause the other donkeys are bringing in plane loads of specialized goats [ my pet goat et cetera.
The UN / WHO thing can only be UN done
By fiat of intervention from X. ) .the great UN known god of Mars Hill.
Otherwise, hot pepper FEMA farms for all non democrats. Capiche ?
Now , the reason the device is pegged ®
Is because you TV heads still require hi quality entertainment. Ergo, plan ® ..
The only defect in Gen. Rippers plan ®
Is that he was working with Pete Sellers &
$tan Kubrick . - not Fresno Bob.

So the entire hemisphere needs actionable
Democrats by the Score tonight...or tomorrow
With satans help. .hint ) Satan means ' he attack s.'

To produce the 8-10 min. Promo spot
For said adventure, the services of a 3rd
Party will enter...
And then it's up to you youngsters to become
The change.. kill the TV. .read quality books.
Go the fire station or the Sheriff
And forcefully say : Disney - PIXAR movie!

There is simply not enough time for further details....dark history ground hog times R near.

Standby.
A I R planes. } .bob
..04 min. Warning. ..} .owen
B O O M. } .the SONICS.

Sync. } Play @ uwr risk. ) Planet patrol

A few times a year I say I'm going to do a timeline of everything I can think of. My brother and I were discussing the cars we owned and I can recall all of them and the sequence, but I'm unsure of the year for each car.
I know when I started flying model helicopters, but unsure when I quit, started again, quit and started again.

I recently connected with 2 cousins who retired in Florida. One is about 3 miles from me and his brother about 11 miles away. We are filling in the timeline of family events.

This is going to be an interesting project as they have seen different sides to the same story that my brother and I experienced.

Tag. } Special edition..

Tip toeing through the Internet & I stumbled into this gem.
...what a real Columbo investigation looks like...hence the
Run time is l o n . .g..



Note. ) .I don't think he made a part 2 ..

I'll scroll through some old emails or check photos in my phone and come across someone who passed on. While I'm not close to any CS members, I do remember those bloggers who were an active part of the CS community and are no longer with us.

Nearly a year ago, Willy passed away.
A few years now that wenever left us.
Bearwoman is gone too...

Thinkin' of ya!